Attracted to women or not ?
I am a young man (30 !) who has had very little sexual
activity in his life. The reason for this is my insecurity
about whether I am attracted to women or men. I really do
not feel sure about this. Talking with thrustworthy people
alone did not solve the problem. And my insecurity keeps me
from going into relationships. Because I feel insecure I
feel guilty not telling women about my problem, but at the
same time I am scared of the consequences of telling them.
So I end up not having any sexual encounters. It is not a
problem that girls would not find me attractive. Many girls
/women have asked me why I am still alone, but I am very
scared of telling them the truth.
What I want to know is this : are there any girls out there
(probably younger than I am) who have similar feelings to
what I have ?
I am now at an age where I really have to find out, though
I am really scared.
Any serious responses (in Dutch, English, French, German or
Spanish) appreciated.
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