The Body Type
One of the most insidious things on the Adult FriendFinder profile is the
Body Type category. Here's where much of the lies and
shallowness take place. Today's society seems to
tell us that "average" is slightly chunkier
than Calista Flockhart. Most of us know better, of course.
But I'm not here to talk about those who say they're
a different body type than they are, I'm sure that's
been discussed ad nauseum. What I will comment on, is the
difficulty those who are totally forthright about their
size (especially men) have in not only meeting, but in the
follow up as well. We've all seen profiles which state
that they are looking for "any" body type, but
in their description of ideal person they write something
like "no fatties". If you don't want a large
person, please say so without being insulting. And if you
truly don't care about the body type, read what they
have to say, if it's intriguing, arrange a meeting,
talk, and then make up your mind. You'll be surprised
at what us "fatties" can do if given a chance.
I don't mean to be ranting and raving or sounding angry.
I of course realize that it could be just me, in which case
I need advice of a different sort. Anyway, in conclusion,
an open mind and heart is truly the best and most attractive
part of a person.
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