Do you have a real style?
Most of the women around my age are always worried about
what is the latest in fashion. Their first preoccupation
when they come out home is that other people admire their
own styles, that by the way do not have anything of own because
they copied it from some other girl.
For example Caroline, a friend of mine always says, For
not pass unnoticed in this world is necessary emphasize
us visually. I disagree with that because there are many
people who are outstanding by their intellect or other
capacities that have no connection with fashion.
I agree with some people who say that a woman mustnt forget
her female side and must take time to echarse una manito
de gato and emphasize characteristics of her face that
most benefit them, the same way as they must worry about
the way they get dress to make better their outward appearance.
Few days ago a man called Aspere said to me, Men isnt only
interested in how women looks. There are a lot of important
and weighty details that makes him to be interested in a
woman, without embargo the appearance is only a entrance
door to all those details and if that door is neglected you
dont imagine that inside you can find a paradise, because
its facade doesnt invite you to enter.
Aspere made me think that all this matter is like meals.
It can be that a food is delicious, but if his appearance
in the plate dislike us the most probably thing is that it
doesnt gave us desire to taste it and we will lose the opportunity
to eat a manjar de dioses. For that reason my mother always
says me, To be beautiful is necessary to see stars because
maybe we disagree in wasting money or time in fix our appearance,
or simply we want that people appreciate us by our essence
and not by our outward appearance, but you have to think
how many times have yourself rejected somebody only because
of his aspect and judged without knowing.
Thats why this subject continues being debatable, because
there are who say, Stereotypes that fashion imposes as
became us to lose our true identity and turn us superficial
beings. I am partly in agreement with that, but not absolutely,
because there also are who say, Beauty is a gift that nature
gives us and if we are able to emphasize it even more of which
it is and share it with other people, we will be embellishing
this world that little by little has been become an ugly
world.
My conclusion is that we have to take advantage of what God
gave us and show to the rest of the people we felt proud of
being like we are, but we must never lose our own identity
and forget that the external beauty will be nothing if it
arent in good company of his complement, the internal
beauty.
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