Just cant leave her
Answer .... ONE OF YOU HAS TO CHANGE.
Since it ain't gonna be her ... YOU HAVE TO CHANGE.
You cannot change her - only you.
When ONE PERSON CHANGES in a Relationship, for the better,
the other person .... if given lots of space, time, and left
to make up their own mind .... will CHANGE to KEEP YOU.
IF YOU CHANGE, and she does not follow you and get along with
you so you two can function as a truly loving couple, you
will REALIZE that YOU CANNOT STAY WITH HER ANYMORE.
CHANGE is DIFFICULT because of FEAR.
Fear of the Unknown because we do not know the person we are
changing into.
YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU DO WRONG TO HER .... BECAUSE
YOU WILL ALWAYS DO THE SAME WRONG THINGS TO THE NEXT HER in
your life.
Thus, Being HONEST with yourself and KNOWING what you do
to PUSH HER AWAY and HOW YOU CAUSE SEPERATION ....
IS IN YOUR BEST INTERESTS.
Changing yourself, how you see things, how you react ....
JUST LOOK AT ALL THE SHIT YOU DO TO HER THAT PISSES HER OFF
- your words, actions, attitude, energy, way you treat
others and yourself - FIND ALL THE THINGS THAT SHE DOES NOT
LIKE that you KNOW IN YOUR HEART you can DO BETTER ....
AND DO EFFING BETTER !!!
Of course, there are things she does not like about you that
are total bullshit .... but that is only because SHE DOES
NOT LIKE THE BASIC YOU.
She loves you.
She wants to be with you.
She FORGETS the WAY YOU ARE when you are apart and then she
wants you back.
Then, she realizes the WAY YOU ARE - WHICH SHE DOES NOT LIKE
!!! because she wants BETTER FOR HERSELF ....
and then all the problems and all the shit start up again
and you two do not get along and you breakup.
CHANGE YOURSELF for YOU.
And she will either FALL BACK IN LOVE WITH YOU or she will
simply LIKE and RESPECT you again.
That is your only solution.
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