extreme erotica

Open for thoughts and opinions

At the risk of sounding a little naive and silly.
Could or would any of you please tell me your thoughts on
threesomes/group sex and orgy's? What is the attraction?

Is it mere kink or fear of commitment?

Is it an inability to be pleasured by one or a simple need
for variety?

Would emotions not have to be checked at the door?

And if so where is the line drawn between being very sexual
humans and plain animal sex?

Last but not least how in the world could you be sure you were
sexually safe ( D&D safe)?

I really am not being judgemental. I think we all have to
do what ever it is that gets us through the night.

I am just tring to understand other peoples kinks/fetishes/
needs and desires.

Any opinions or thoughts would be appreciated.