Where has the Romance gone?
Is it just me or has there been a greater growing lack of romance
in dating these days. What happened to the James Bond type
of men. I for one believe chivalry is not dead, just asleep.
I rarely see passion and the courting of a woman happen anymore.
More and more it is becoming more clear to me that seducing
a partner is a fading act of sexually foreplay.
Let me know if this is something you would prefer or just
a drawn out process.
Don't get me wrong I like sex and quickies and just purely
sexually satisfaction as everyone else. But one thing
I enjoy the most is a great evening of conversation over
a candle lit dinner, great wine, excellent food, and two
people who are dressed to impress. Leaving the end of the
night a stage for some phenomenal satisfaction for both
of you.
Starting from the moment you pick a woman up for a date. As
long as there is an attraction, which I would assume there
is already if you are going on a date, Guys bring a single
flower, not always a rose put some thought into it. Try tulips,
sunflowers, daisy's, break from the norm and be original.
When you give her the flower establish a flirtatious vibe
with a peck on the cheek and a hand on her hip. Don't try
to over do it, just be patient and start off slow. When you
are both ready to go extend your arm for her to hold and open
the car door, this shows respect and you know what it is just
a nice thing to. I don't know about you but I like the
feeling of a pretty woman on my arm and watching her body
that I find attractive slide into my car/truck. It works
both ways here!
Get the conversation rolling on the way to dinner or whatever
you may be starting the evening off with. (By the way pick
a nice place to go for the evening somewhere with style and
taste, somewhere that if you are dressed up you would fit
right in.) I like to keep it fun and open minded. Nothing
to serious or anything redundant. Once you get to where
you are going. Run around open the door for her, hold her
hand as she gets out. Open the door to where you are going.
I think you get the picture for door opening, haha.
Once your evening has begun rolling along, keep the flirtatious
vibe going. Hopefully she is as playful as you with slight
physical contact that send goose bumps down your arm or
leg. Compliment her on what you like about her and if things
are going really well, drop a whisper of a hint of what you
would like to happen later, in a classy manner as well, not
in a heat of the moment dirty way. I think that lets you leave
her imagination run wild with it. As the night goes on keep
getting closer to one another and step up the touching,
nothing that would require a room or offend others but If
you are enjoying cocktails I like to have my hand on the small
of her back maybe gently stroking my finger letting her
know I like touching her body and wish my hand could explore
more later. I will admit I have a hair fetish. I love the feel
of a woman's hair and the smell of it, that is if she washes
it haha! Come up from behind her brush her hair back behind
her ear leaving your finger twirling it and get in close
to her ear and whisper something that will make her smile,
take a moment to indulge in her scent as well. The air moving
around her neck may send a shiver down her spine as well,
making that smile a devilish one.
As the evening comes to an end and things have gone well when
you get to the car to leave as you open the door for her give
her a nice soft kiss on her lips. Don't try to ram your
tongue down her throat, just something to hopefully create
a flurry of excitement on the way home so when you get there
you both want to ravish one another and cannot wait till
you are behind closed doors.
If you are both attracted to one another and sexually play
is the nature of your dating. I think to start it off right
an evening like this sets the tone for a future of great sex
and satisfaction. I know some of it may sound like you are
trying to swoon her for more than friends with benefits,
but if in the future a relationship were to develop is that
such a terrible thing. After all you both have common interests
and a mutual attraction. But in the beginning take some
time to show respect and courtesy. Have some class and taste,
let her know she is a woman and deserves to be treated like
one. Because she does! Just have fun with it all. I think
setting the tone like that from the get go lets both of your
imaginations take off and give one another a stronger attraction
that you can take to the bedroom and rock one another's
worlds with. Let me know what you think of all this.
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