PHONE SEX ANYONE?
Not that I'm asking, just wanted to share with you my
view on the subject. When I first started with online chat
some years ago, I had to experience the unknown. Cyber sex
was one, which to be honest didn't really do much for
me as it is a bit difficult to get much out of it if you're
honestly playing and trying to type at the same time.
Phone sex would be preferable to cyber sex though it too
has its drawbacks. It is nice to actually hear the other
person which makes you a bit more involved and closer to
being together if you were in a relationship and are already
intimate with the other person, it would be a good way to
keep close if one was out of town or for some reason not able
to join you in person. The drawback to phone sex with someone
you haven't met yet gives the other expectations as
you have crossed a line which should come after meeting.
Being new to it years ago, I didn't realize then what
I know now and will share a true experience with you.
It was a number of years ago, and being single, didn't
think there was any harm in phone sex until after I met one
of the men. We decided to meet one day after work for coffee,
which was good that it would be in a public place and not for
a long meeting. I had to try very hard to sit through two cups
of coffee before making a polite exit. The man I met, probably
hadn't bathed for at least a week if not more, was very
unkept and smelled pretty bad, thankfully there was a table
between us. After I managed to drink my coffee, which was
hard to do when you're trying to breath through your
mouth, I very nicely said thank you but I wasn't interested.
He walked me out and to my car, not that I had a choice, and
thought that the least I could do was give him a kiss, after
all, we did share a lot more together on the phone. I had to
refuse because no way were my lips going anywhere near him,
or my nose for that matter, but ended up having to hold my
breath as he grabbed me for a hug. At least I was still in public
and could make a getaway. As I drove home, the only thoughts
going through my head were "OMG...I had phone sex
with THAT..." It sure opened my eyes a bit and made
me start thinking about what I was getting into.
Since then I have made rules for myself. Phone sex is ok if
already involved with someone, or if you never have any
intentions whatsoever now or in the future of meeting.
I am sure there are those who also have their fair share of
stories and those who really enjoy cyber sex and phone sex.
To each their own. I never judge another person just because
their views differ from mine, and I don't think it's
fair or right to be judged. Enjoy life, be happy, but never
at the expense of another.
Cheeks
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