Massage & Champagne The Seductors Ultimate Cocktail
So, you have done everything right so far had a good date,
been witty and charming company, been a good listener,
asked lots of supplementary questions (in fact I will post
two extra articles to precede this one Picking Up (Hitting
on a Girl) and The Killer First Date) and been allowed
access to her intimate personal space. Again more on this
soon.
She agrees to come back to your place but the work is far from
done yet. Remember she is there because she wants to be
nothing more than that dont assume sex will follow but
be prepared for it. The secret is to relax and make her feel
relaxed. The best way is to open a bottle of medium quality
sparkling wine I prefer a nice Cava. A firm favourite is
Friexenet available from most UK supermarkets for about
6GBP. Dont bother with the expensive French champagnes
for two reasons; 1) They are quite an acquired taste unless
you drink them regularly and your partner might not like
them and 2) It looks like you are trying too hard!!
The other thing about drinking a sparkling wine is that
the bubbles in the alcohol are absorbed more quickly in
the bloodstream creating a faster chilled-out feeling.
Also, for you guys a few glasses of bubbly rarely has that
droopy effect know what I mean fellas?
So where do you sit? The answer is together at either end
of the settee actually whilst on this note a quick word
about furniture. Now this might seem an extreme attention
to detail but it is important. Let me tell you how I know this
I have spent the last 14 years in sales and one of the most
important things in securing a sale is to make the customer
feel relaxed and comfortable physically comfortable.
Therefore I recommend a soft leather settee, at least a
three seater and soft and wide enough to make love on. Also,
leather is easy to wipe clean!
So having poured a glass of bubbly tip: use expensive wine
flutes to compensate for the cheap booze! kick off your
shoes (make sure your feet dont smell) and pull up your
feet onto the settee and turn your body towards her. She
will almost certainly mimic your body position if not
encourage her to kick off her shoes.
So you will now be sat at each end of the sofa quite close but
not in each others personal space and it is quite erotic
as you will see the shape of her thighs and hips.
Next stage, things are still going well lots of flirting
and eye contact you might at this point think about moving
towards her to kiss her. RESIST THAT TEMPTATION for now
anyway. If she is in the mood you will have much more intense
and erotic sex by following the slow-burn build up. If she
is not quite ready you might start kissing her and she might
push you away this makes it much harder to recover.
So, this is where it gets interesting you will probably
be quite close so reach forward and take hold of one foot
and ask her to stretch her legs out for a foot massage she
will rarely refuse. The foot for a woman is an intensely
erogenous zone yet still sterile enough to allow a virtual
stranger to touch them. You may need to re-assure her that
her feet dont smell lie if you have to! Foot massage is
an easy technique to learn. Rest her heel on your knee and
cup her foot with both hands and press your thumbs quite
firmly in the sole of the foot and massage quite slowly up
and down. Also, cup the heel and toes with each hand and squeeze
and scrunch together. Finally, supporting the Achilles
heel with one hand, lean your shoulder on to the top of the
foot to stretch her tendons. Repeat with the other foot.
By now she should be getting quite relaxed. Next, the knee
squeeze. I have never met a woman that does not like having
her knees massaged women tend to retain fluid around their
knee joints much more than men so this is always welcome
relief. Remember, the whole purpose of this is to condition
her to the fact that she can and will enjoy your touch the
natural extension of this is to touch her intimate sexual
areas but not yet.
Massage both knees at once with her legs straight out in
front of you let your hands extend upwards on the top part
of her thigh squeezing and massaging. Now you are actually
touching her in an intimate and sensual part of her body
but it will feel the most natural thing in the world.
At this point you might want to top up her drink or take a pee
break because the next stage is non-stop.
Next offer to massage her shoulders dont make the mistake
of getting her to lie face down on the sofa you will lose
all the intimacy. Instead sit with your legs astride on
the setter with your back resting on the arm and her sitting
in between your legs. In the animal world turning your back
on someone is psychologically a very submissive position.
Plus she will be pressed into your groin. You might become
erect at this point she will actually like that but dont
mention it or worse apologise for it just ignore it! This
is about making your partner the centre of attention. Both
of you will also be releasing invisible pheromones and
probably be experiencing a rush of adrenalin which will
heighten the sexual tension.
Just briefly massage her shoulders at first then lean her
head back on to your chest and massage her temples and stroke
her head and hair. Cup your hand and place it on her forehead
and gently roll back your hand over her head. This will have
a deeply soothing effect and is often connected to some
deep emotional triggers conveying safety and comfort
most parents stroke their kids hair to sooth them. Also,
gently pinch and hold the bridge of her nose with your forefinger
and thumb practice on yourself.
Next, lean her forward again and start massaging her back
and neck touching gently all of her neck and throat and shoulders.
Lean forward as you massage until your face is next to hers
as you gently squeeze and press. You are now in the zone.
Tell her how lovely she is reach round and wrap your arms
around her and hold her hands and stroke the backs of her
hands. Man she is all yours now! Start kissing her gently
on the neck and behind her ear guys girls DO NOT like a big
wet slobbering tongue shoved in their ears so dont do it.
Turn her face towards you and lean forward and kiss her.
Now reach down and caress her breasts resistance should
be nil by now. Do I really need to go on? Post a reply to this
if you need any tips on what happens next and do look out for
the two related articles. Take Care and Keep it Fun x x x.
|
