Is she sending me signals?
I am very good freinds with a younger woman, and have been
for several years. We work together in the evening. We email
frequently, and I have been there for her during her separation.
But something suggests that there is a connection not explored.
Would you consider these signals that she is feeling the
same things.
Examples of the signals...
One night two months ago, I ran into some of her freinds,
and they convinced her to go out to a dance club, telling
her I was going as well. She mentioned that she came because
she knew I was going. ( but was this because we were just good
friends?)
We danced, and she tells me on the dance floor that she was
dirty dancing with me, ,, and she was.( but was this because
we were just good friends?)
When we emailed each other during the week, she suggests
that we go out for a drink after work. ( and I never suggested
the idea)
Is she sending hints?
She sends me unsolicited emails often, explaining issues
and problems she is having with the ex.
She has briefly mentioned on a couple of occassions that
she is missing intimacy in her life. Is she trying to tell
me something more?
We are excellent and close friends, so being direct is not
an option. I would never take the chance of jeapordizing
our closeness. Any advice?
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