Mixing Lifestyles...
My hubby & i are into not only the swinging lifestyle
but also the BDSM lifestyle.
We met a couple that for all intents and purposes seemed
"normal" we talked and agreed to go back to their
place, to chat some more and see where it went. We didn't
go into our other lifestyle until the husband asked about
the collar i wear. Once it was explained, he thought it was
cool and the subject was dropped, thought nothing more
of it.
We ended up at their place, they took out a bunch of toys etc.
after everyone was comfortable. Everyone got naked and
started to play, everything was going great until Bozo
(not his real name...LOL) decided that he was going to try
his hand at dominance. Long story made short, i've
been really scared to swing because of it, that night I ended
up, bitten and hurt in a few ways.
We're still looking for another experience, but i'm
not sure how to let myself relax to enjoy it. We take a lot
more time to get to know the couples that we're with...but
that doesn't seem to help.
Just confused and ranting i guess :)
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