Who are you looking for? (after the profile intro)
Who are you looking for?
Well this is easy. Most of us would say.....________(let
your mind wonder and fill in the blank)
Can we truly fine what we are looking for when we only know
what we want not what we need?
Im looking for an intelligent woman that can fulfill me
mentally, physically as well as spiritually. But can I
find this person based on introductions alone?
Profiles are meant to provide the world with an inside peek
to who we are. But are we really who we are in our introductions?
Or are we more then our introductions may lead? Or do we want
more form our potential mate (s) then we feel comfortable
saying in our intros?
In my profile I basically say im a good guy well... blah,
blah, blah... just as everyone says, right? Well if everyone
was a good guy or pronominal lay we wouldnt need to go
any further then right outside the door and snatch the best
new lay or friend of our lives. We would blow each others
minds on pure pre-notions alone.
But obviously there has got to be more to and for us. Most
often we introduce ourselves over again using a simple
wink or a short email. Again is this truly enough information
to learn who we really are? Or are we just an image of the desire
that best attracts the market we are tring to get the attention
of?
My profile doesnt mention that I am looking for a mate as
well partner. It doesnt let that interested person know
that I am not really interested in posting emails for a month
before meeting. Because off the net I meet people often.
If I havent at lest exchange phone numbers within a couple
of days to a week I lose interest.
I dont believe I even mention in my profile how important
my family is to me. Or how much is it a turn on seeing someone
I am attracted to rub there thighs together or being in a
black shirt. I know I didnt mention how much romantic foreplay
turns me on. Or that I like to be turned on before having sex.
Even the simple things like how sexy it is when she tells
me she thought about me during her work day arent listed.
Some of you may tell me that time is the thing that is needed
to learn these things. But how often have you meet someone
off the net without feeling completely safe with that person.
And if thats the case how often have you met someone without
knowing deeply about such person.
Not often I bet. So I believe we should demand more content
within first impressions and less cover when learning
about new people.
Regardless what we feel about this subject. We should always
remember that we are one of the most important things we
have. Our sexual curiosity must never in danger our understanding
of who a partner is and whom we want them to be.
Maurice Peebles
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