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Would Cybersex be more cheating then actually 'do' it?

Just wondering... in this age of internet etc, cybersex has become a part of life itself, and I'm sure lotsa people
(especially here on the openminded Adult FriendFinder community) have been involved in cybersex. Now if you knew your partner
(male, female, doesn't matter) was having cybersex with someone, without telling you,
would you find that worse or not then when he/she goes out and actually has sex, just for the sex.

So, to make it easy... what do you consider "worse" :

- cybersex on the net (love/feelings involved?)
- IRL sex, just for the sex (no love involved)

I'm curious ;-)