Alpha-Male, sex & tissue paper
Ive been a memeber of Adult FriendFinder for almost 2years. it wasn't
untill recently though, that i started posting articles
in this section of the site and the results have been interesting
to say the least!
Let me establish a point of reffernce to help you understand
my general perspective about this site, my purpose and
intents, (which some, if not all are shared by many other
Adult FriendFinder members), for posting a personal in this dark little
corner of cyberspace. having a completely demanding,
challenging, and time consuming life-style and no interest
(or energy) to hangout in nite clubs, or lounges, nor to
create any drama within my business network, or fitness
center by dating the the women i know therein, i found a neat
site filled with images of naked people engaged in daring
sexual acts, (Adult FriendFinder)where i can view, post and exchange provocative
pix and dialogue with other like minded people. moreover,
i can 'advertise' myself, my body, personality,
and my blunt honest, and specific expectations of a sexual
relationship, in a forum geared towards 'sexual encounters'(see
Adult FriendFinder login page) -24hrs a day 7days aweek; completely accesible
to a global audience.ahhhh, the blessings of technology
improving the quality and speed of our lives. and i do so
appreciate the expediency of such a venue...where else
(or when else) are we ever this honest about our libido's
and dark desires?
with that said, i started posting 'articles'
just to add a little depth (and exposure) to my profile.
also, i've noticed there is a trend, pattern, and theme
in alot of the responses i get from my profile (and now articles)
which i feel could be best dealt with on this side of the site.
of course it is of no surprise to me that many cruizing through
the countless photos might land on mine and make certain
assumtions about me and my self-image that are often cast
upon alpha-males. i suppose if i wanted to be viewed differntly,
and to escape accusations of steriod use, gran dios, giggilo,
STD's etc i could have posted a less revealing picture
of myself, perhaps me in my office attire, and made statements
less bold, more papable for those of sensitive tastes,
and been quick with a box of virtual tissue paper for those
in need of 'venting' their worldy woes ...i suppose
i could of submitted something about my favorite authors,
long walks on beaches, my life goals and aspirations, and
produced yet another generic unremarkable, uniunspired
and frankly disingenious profile. (and when i filled out
the questionare that asked about my 'endowment'
i realized i wasn't being asked to donate money to a
learning instittue) -i am, after all, on a SEX & SWINGERS
site for a reason readily implied -and considering that,
i doubt anyone realy wants to see a profile pic of my with
my shirt on, or realy cares (initialy) of my geo-political
view points, if indeed they want what i want from this site...namely,
sex.
now back to the stereo-typing: despite the fact, that i
am unabashedly seeking out sexual encounters; or that
i am a loud proud italian-american who readily enjoys any
occasion where i can take off my clothes and display the
results of my physical labors and the lords blessings,
i do take exception with those who wrongly inffer from my
pix, profile or articles that i think myself to be the worlds
greatest 'sheet-shaker', that i'm 'chauvenistic,
insulting or degrading to women.' i maintain that
there isn't a place on this site, or in any of my interactions
where such an allegation could be premised in something
i actualy said or wrote. rather its an ASSUMPTION, or just
an knee-jerk emotional response to something someone
disagrees with, but can't intellegently find fault
with (i call this reverse sexism or jealousy...oh, oh
i said it now didn't i?) and it occurs to me, that those
who find my postings as disagreeable as my grandmothers
garlic yogart, are the first and loudest complainers that
other Adult FriendFinder memembers don't CAREFULLY READ their own
precious profiles. perhaps these unnamed members ought
to follow their own advice or admit they too are just as self-absorbed
and hypocritcal as i am
;->
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