Response to Can't We All Get Along???
I find your article interesting for a number of reasons.
First, you say the owners of this site, builds up your
hopes, divides you from your money, and leaves you with
a sour taste in your mouth. Later, you state, Adult FriendFinder wouldn't
be able to manipulate the insecure into giving up their
money. So, are you, college educated, well informed,
and an above-average looking guy , but insecure?
Obviously, this site is a business, but does that mean that
they can control the individuals who sign up here? People
have a right to look for whatever their heart desires at
a site like this. Those of you who are here looking for no
strings sex appear to be frequently disappointed (read
the articles at the magazine, and youll see what I mean).
I find it to be very nave of you to think that you can pay
20.00 a month for a silver membership, and, for that meager
payment get all the sex with strangers that you can handle.
If there were that many horny women out here looking to get
laid by total strangers theyd be humping your leg at the
grocery store!..laughing
I have read many, many, many of the articles here because
people really interest me. What I find to be pretty consistent
from those articles is that many women are here looking
for relationships while many men are looking for what the
site advertises. The trouble is, there are so many more
men here that the women who are looking for the same thing
you are could be screwing day and night seven days a week
and still not make it through the list of all the men! The
men often write comments like, Why the heck dont those
of you who are looking for relationships go to another site,
like FriendFinder? Well, to them, I say that if you look
at the opening page, you will also see email, IM, etc., as
choices. Some of us are not looking for exciting sex with
strangers. in the flesh, but rather cybersex. If you dont
like this site, start one of your own where you have to swear
on a stack of bibles that you will screw in the flesh at
least X number of people, or lose your membership! You could
have an 800 number that a person could call to tally up the
score after each meeting to make sure everyone is keeping
up their end of the bargain! Then those of you who express
such disappointment in this site can find what youre truly
looking for and not waste so much of your time looking for
that elusive hook-up.
I am also going to take advantage of this subject line to
say I have met some wonderful people here. Not a single man
has ever treated me with disrespect, in any form, in his
mail to me. I happen to love sex, and joined Adult FriendFinder thinking
that I would play in cyberland only. You see, like some
of the other women here, I happen to believe that if I find
a man for a relationship here Ill know what he likes sexually.
That is important to me. This is why I didnt join FriendFinder.
For all I know, someone I meet there may not like sex at all,
or want things I dont like. To broach the subject of sex
with someone you meet at a dating site can be awkward. Here,
you pretty much get that out of the way right off the bat..laughing.
I talk to a few buddies that I met here and I have also found
one very special man. We may or may not have a future, but
you CAN find that here at Adult FriendFinder. Someone special. I have time.to
get to know him.Im not in any hurry. Should the day come
when I decide to have sex with him, Ill know the man as well,
not just the size of his dick.
Now, Im sorry, to all you guys that are having such a hard
time finding that easy no strings lay with a woman that
is beautiful enough to be a model, and just cant wait to
jump your bones. But really guys, do you expect that to be
so easy for a measly twenty bucks a month?
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