A well kept secret
Here is a secret. Chat with people for at least a month before
you even propose meeting them. Let them know that you are
going to take it slow as soon as you start chatting. If you
have more than 3 chat dates the guy is interested and willing
to stick around for a while.
The other half of this secret is IT IS VERY HARD to put up a
false image for several hours, AND multiple times. Look
for inconsistancies - if you find any - Question it immeadately
- and press the question. No inconsistancies or minor ones
that are easily explained are what you are looking for.
Once you get to know him or her (not just sex questions) give
an option for a date, not before. If the guy is for real and
serious, he will let the woman set the pace.
Women do control the sexual world, so you can set any terms
and conditions you wish. Us poor guys have to meet, respect
and agree to them.
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