Is three really a crowd?
Why is it that just when you think youve met the right person,
they turn out to be full of S%*#???
My fianc & I have been looking for someone to add to
our relationship. Its not that were greedy; its just
that we both have needs & desires that we wish to fulfill
and too much love for just two people.
I am a bisexual who enjoys giving just as much as receiving.
He loves to watch, participate and spoil his women rotten.
But it seems that every time we hook up with someone who seems
to be the right one, we always crash and burn (so to speak).
We have been with different types: older, younger, attached
and unattached, with and without kids. We have yet to meet
some one thru this service, but we remain optimistic. =)
It seems that the women we have found are simply in it for
their own benefits. Im sure you know what I mean, the ones
who give off that Whats in it for me? vibe.
Were not asking for any thing more than we are prepared
to offer in return. We want to share the love and affection
we have in abundance with the right person and show them
what it is like to be a part of a great relationship. After
all, weve been together for 6 years now (& counting!!),
so we must be doing something right. Is it so out of this world
to think that there is actually someone out there who is
secure enough in her own self worth and individuality that
she can be a part of us yet still remain her own person?
Then there is the whole issue of What will others think?
Frankly who gives a flying toadstool?? We are secure enough
to know that if we are happy, then that is truly all that matters.
We have no games to play or lines to feed. All we have is the
love and commitment we wish to share with that special someone.
It has been said that one of the most important things in
a relationship is being honest, if that is the case, wouldnt
it be nice to know you could honestly tell your significant
other Im really just not in the mood with out worrying
about the consequences/attitudes in the morning. And
besides, didnt some one once say The more the merrier?
I sure would like to have met that person so I could have helped
spread that philosophy.
So my point is: Is two really company, and three a crowd?
Or could two be company and three a blast I personally think
a triple is three times as much fun as a couple. And before
you offer your opinion, think of this On those occasions
when you are almost mad with desire but your partner is (hmmmm
how to put this) about as warm as a naked person standing
in the middle of a frozen pond in the dead of winter (or vice-versa),
wouldnt it be nice to be able to just roll over and have someone
else to turn to(not to mention permission). After all,
some have been doing that for years, theyre called affairs.
I would much rather know that my man is fully satisfied and
getting all the attention he deserves (and none of the cooties
he doesnt) right at home with my blessings and complete
knowledge. He is such a wonderful fella after all, and my
mommy taught me it wasnt nice not to share. =)
What do you think?? I'd love to hear your opinion on
this... Thanks for your time!!
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