RE: teasers and desperation, aka i am outta here
i think that it is a good idea to put the handles of both fakes
and abusive jerks who think they are entitled to fuck you
just because they want to in the forum.
but with teasing, this is a bad idea, imho. i have made a very
sincere effort to find someone right for me on this site.
i did have a profile with a pic, but had to pull it due to both
number of replies, scary/freaky people, and above all
the extremely high percentage of replies that were totally
inappropriate given the things i said i was looking for.
people who reply out of desperation and then ignore every
valid point about simply being so overwhelmed with mail
and/or being standard members are causing a lot of folks
to expend huge amounts of time.
while i would have paid to be on here IF folks took my parameters
seriously, i will NOT pay for a service that for whatever
reason, send me 90% spam.
i shudder to think that those men who for whatever reason
aren't getting what they want here feel perfectly
free to criticize someone for `teasing' them. i suppose
just having my picture on this site and not wanting to fuck
every tom, dick and harry that was horny was `teasing'.
anyhow- despite being `real' and making very sincere
attempts to hook up through here, i have spent so many hours
trying to weed through the crap that i don't have time
to follow up with those i may have been interested in.
so, rather than stay here and whine, i am outta here.
i really do hope that before you blame others, you check
your attitude out. why should anyone be expected to fuck
someone they find disgusting, or who has shown zero regard
for what you said you were looking for?
sorry you're horny. me too. but bullying and trying
to blacklist women who don't want married men for instance
is counter productive.
our time and energy is valuable, and if you don't respect
that, you aren't someone we would want to be with anyway.
best luck to all
lara lou
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