Re: A simple no
While I can say I totally "feel your pain" as
it were, I can also say it doesn't really matter.
The fact is, for every man, woman, or couple, looking for
someone/people to have fun with, the vast majority of respondees
to their ads aren't going to be what they want, or even
those avaliable in the Adult FriendFinder pool of possibilities.
Heck, even if a woman/man/couple is a full star match, odds
are either you or them aren't really going to to be satisfied
with the connection. She'll think you're not
hot enough, or not female, or hung enough, or unique enough
to fufill her fantasies, and you might think she's
too heavy, or are unimpressed by her gramatical lapses
in her profile to satisfy yours...that's reality.
In dating for every 10 so-called potentials you meet, only
one MIGHT be what you're looking for! (if that..sometimes
you need another set of 10!)
So... women and men are going to pass on you far more often
than they're going to smile and say "Gimme some
more of that!" That's just life, whether on Adult FriendFinder
or otherwise...don't expect courtesy..better yet,
don't expect anything! Most people won't be right
for you and just flat out suck when compared with what you
want, and vice versa.
Just remember that if they think you're not worth their
time to respond, then they probably weren't worth
your effort to reply in the first place. Move on, be yourself,
and forget what anyone else says (or doesn't say) about
it!
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