Re: What Catches the Woman's Eye
I can't speak for all women, of course, but I can give
you my perspective as an older woman, who has been around,
and knows exactly what she is looking for. First of all,
a picture is almost mandatory, preferably showing your
face instead of your private parts! We all know what they
look like, and we'd like to think you have more to offer
than a cock...next, a well-written, articulate and grammatically
correct letter introducing yourself, explaining why
you were attracted to this particular person, and a little
bit of what you are looking for and what you hope to bring
to a new relationship. A gentlemanly approach is ALWAYS
the way to go, leave the caveman approach to those who don't
know any better...I'd like to think that romance is
not dead, and that those who practice the subtleties of
courtship will always be more successful than those whose
idea of approaching a woman is limited to "OK, baby,
let's get it on!" or even more crude expletives
which we all know about.
Lastly, a request for a reply IF the lady is interested in
what you have to offer, will almost always elicit one in
short order. Trust me, she will be so amazed at your gentlemanly
introduction that after recovering from a dead faint she
will hasten to reply in a most favorable way! I can assure
you that this method will put you head and shoulders above
90% of the men on this site. Remember, take the time to proofread
your note and make it at least as long as this one from me.
After all, you are a complete stranger to her, and you want
her to know where you are coming from and as much about yourself
as you feel comfortable revealing.
I wish you the best of luck and would be interested to know
how you do after following these few suggestions...
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