What can I do?!?
About a year ago, I had broke up with my girlfriend of three
years. I loved this girl more than life itself. I have never
loved anyone like this before and I feel that she still is
the one for me. The reason for the break-up was based on an
argument that we had that escalated into a fight. Since
then she and I have calmed down and we still see each other,
but she made it clear that she was not ready to get back together
with me. So I told her that I would wait for her because I loved
her that much so she could settle her feelings for me. Meanwhile
she meets this guy and they start to date, which makes me
think that she doesn't want me anymore. She still tells
me that she loves me, but then I ask her why doesn't she
want to be with me. She replies by saying that I do want you,
but at the same time I don't. Its not fair for me to wait
for her to open her heart up back to me, only for her to open
up to someone else. I still love her and want to be with her.
How can I deal with the hell of uncertainty? I don't
want to lose her to this guy thats been trying to move in on
her while she claims that she still loves me. She doesn't
love this guy, but yet she doesn't want to be with me.
How can I deal with this?
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