Can we be friends first?
Is it possible to find a female in a swinging couple to befriend
this lady, and teach her?
I am interested in making friends with a female. I am not
interested in hearing from any males. I am in love with a
man I have been living with for the past three years, and
we are moving into a new neighborhood in Washington DC,
where we won't know anyone. I would like to meet women in
our area who share my interests, and who can talk with me
about their Swinging experiences.
Our sex life together is great, but he is curious about other
possibilities. He proposed swinging, and I did not object,
but asked how we would get started. He thought we should
try going to a Swingers club in our city, and showed me the
website. I was intimidated by the photos I saw, and decided
I did not want to go, telling him "I don't look anything like
those women", I have gained some weight and just don't feel
attractive. He thinks I am mistaken about my looks.
At this point I am not ready to do anything but make friends
and talk, and only with the female half of a swinging couple.
I could probably never enjoy myself in a Swing situation
until I really knew the other couple very well first, so
if you are not willing to invest some time, I am not the right
person for you.
I am nonsmoking and drug free, and expect the same from both
of you. Our finances are not so great, so if posessions and
money are important to you, we couldn't be good friends.
We do not own a car, travel strictly by Metro. We happen to
be white. My interests are many, including needlepoint,
women's rights, cats, handicrafts of all sorts, country
music, and I am working on starting my own Bed and Breakfast
Inn. I love to sing, and I play piano.
I am well-educated and lean toward a liberal political
viewpoint.
I have had some bad experiences with clingy, needy or pushy
people. I am very generous and kind, but will not tolerate
that sort of treatment.
It is worth saying that I do not want to hear from any males,
single or otherwise. Thank you.
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