Falling for our 3some partner
I (male) have been having a 3some with my partner of twelve
years and another female for about 3 months now, meeting
nearly every weekend for some fun. My partner and i are not
married nor do we have any kids. During this time i have got
to know this woman very well and find i have more in common
with her and seem to be able to hold a conversation etc..
better with her. She is a single mother who has kids and the
idea of having kids has always terrified me, but i also find
i like her lifestyle and the kids. I can't stop thinking
of her and would love to spend the rest of my life with this
lady, i have never felt this way about anyone so much before.
What do i do? If i tell this woman that i am falling for her
will she decide that she has got "too close"
and i will scare her off? I don't want the friendship/relationship
to be ruined, or do i just go along as is and ignore my feelings.
One way or another i am going to upset someone and that hurts
me the most as well. If i am true to myself i would like to tell
her my feelings and i would hope she feels the same.
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