Technique? What technique?
So many people on this site ask questions along the lines
of tell me how to make my guy/gal cum. Okay, being honest,
its usually a bloke asking, but still. I am going to reveal
the secret technique of great sex
Are you ready?
Are you REALLY ready?
There isnt one. As Im sure most people reading this would
agree, love-making is like a dance between two lovers,
with each responding to the other in unique and never-to-be-repeated
steps that bring mutual pleasure and exhilaration. To
continue the analogy, sometimes we stand on each others
toes. Thats fine we still like to dance, its just that
the dance wasnt as good as it can be. Sometimes we get the
steps just right, in perfect synch, to the right music in
the right place at the right time. Then its fireworks,
man. Its all about following one another, being attentive
to your partner and always trying to give pleasure rather
than receive. If youre both doing that then you both will
receive, and you get a high knowing that youve given your
partner something without expectation of a return and
you get another high in being given something that you did
not ask for. What a thrill!
In short, respect your partner, try to give them what they
want, not what you want, and relax. Chill out. Love one another.
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