The first meeting isn't always what you expect.
Most, who use a "service" like this are looking
for a quick lay and then move on....some are going to be visiting
an area and are looking to meet new friends, not always just
for sex. Irregardless of this modern, insecure, and sometimes
dangerous time that we live in, PEOPLE HAVE TO HAVE SEX,
and this is one way to meet people.
I have always been cautious of anyone who just wants to "come
over to screw" on a minutes notice. The disease element
alone brings my caution level to the maximum, and this is
where I say, "Safe sex is best."....You already
knew that, and are probably wanting new info.
Look, when you meet someone for the first time whether it
is male-male, male-female, ect., you have expectations
and sometimes those expectations are not met. Be realistic,
not everyone is going to be "truthful" when
they advertise. "I have a great big dick", means
he thinks it is big and great, but that doesn't mean
it is so. Some, not many, use photos that are 2-3 years old
because they have gained weight or have changed their appearance.
Unless, both parties are strictly looking for the proverbial
"quickie", be realistic. "Hope for the
best, expect the worst, and what happens, happens."
For me, I have met, online, several individuals that I am
very interested in, but the timing has been aweful. I also
have a strong desire to stay away from individuals who are
married and "slipping out". That has proven
to be an issue as well.
Have fun, make friends if you are able, but be safe and realistic
and no one is disappointed or harmed. Above all, be straight-forward
and truthful, and there won't be unexpected surprises.
Everyone will enjoy themselves with no mis-representation
to get in the way....
Have fun, have a lot of sex, be safe, but be honest with yourselves
and those you intend to meet.
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