married and sexless for three months...what to do?
I've been married for 7 years to a woman who I thought
was the greatest lover I've had. For the past five years,
since our first child, sex has been on the decline. When
we have it and she's into it, it's great, but she
is rarely into it. There have been times when I have not been
the most attentive or patient partner, and she has some
issues to resolve, but three months is a long time to be around
a woman I love and I'm attracted to. I don't know
what to do. I just joined ADF to try and find someone and I've
contemplated going to an "entertainer". I'm
coming really close to seeking an extamarital afair but
I am reluctant to live with that eating away at my conscience,
not to mention the risk of losing my wife. I'd love some
advise from women out there...and how some of you men have
dealt with this.
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