Erotic Massage Part 1
Erotic massage for lovers can be a very intense and stimulating
way to initiating sex. Begin by prepairing your space.
A massage table is the most comfortable for the person giving
the massage but a firm mattress will do. You will need some
kind of massage lubricant, I suggest Neutrogina lite sesame
oil. It has a lite feel and a delicate fragerance and will
not stain clothing, sheets, etc.
Because both of you may want to have sex at some time within
the massage, you should both bathe before the massage.
This also makes for a more enjoyable experience.
The use of candles is not recommended because of the chance
of fire.
When the space has been prepaired, begin the massage slowly,
the body has very many errogines zones so take your time
and be thorough. Haste makes waste, you both will find that
the more time you take, the better it will feel and the feeling
will last.
Move your hands slowly over her shoulders down her back
all the way to her buttocks and then back up. Repeat all the
strokes as many times as you feel is nesessary, remember,
you can never give to much but it's easy to not give enough.
After you've spent some time on her shoulders, move
on down to her low back and hips. Spend some time on her sacrum
(the bone at the base of the spine) this is especially helpful
for menstral cramps. Stroke back up from her butt all the
way to her shoulders and back, use ALL of your hands, not
just your fingers or palm. Make your strokes sensual, not
abbrupt. Remember, your MAKING LOVE to her, not just fucking.
Rub her body like it is a piece of art, not a piece of meat.
Stroke on down to her leggs and spend some time on her feet
and ankles. Womens shoes may look sexy, but they don't
feel good. Gentle kisses to the back of her leggs, knees
and buttocks will get her in the mood.
Don't dive right in to her genitals, there will be plenty
of time for that later. Show her that you can be more than
just an animal, that you can take care of her in a more gentle
sensuous way.
I cannot tell you how many of my female clients have said
things to me like: " my husband only lasts two minutes
and then just wants sex" or " my husband does'nt
touch me like this" or even "that was better
than sex!"
Next week: The front of her body
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