Gantlemen, some helping hands can do a wonderful thing...
Our hands can do wonders in sex, just like or mouth, tongue,
or penis can. What are some good things to do with your hands?
Well every women is different and really you should check
with her before trying a ton of different things. Here are
some tips though...
Always start off slow, massaging and fondling over anything
else. The starting point is getting her turned on and slowly
increasing her arousal. (A womens breast is not a loaf of
bread). Be careful with them unless you know she likes it
rougher.
Many women get nervous, sometimes that nervousness can
result in pain during penetration. The best way to get a
women to relax is wandering hands. Odds are she is nervous
(if at all) about something your specifically doing or
about to be doing. Wandering hands works wonders, stroking
her thighs or lightly grabbing her breasts. Massaging
her stomach, grabbing her hips, or caressing her a**. Sometimes
just having her suck on your finger can do the trick.
Everything changes with arousal. While you may have to
massage her breast and lightly pinch her nipples at the
beginning. That may change later to a firmer or harder pinch
to her nipples or even a much more aggressive pump to her
breast.
Regardless of all this we have to remember that kissing
means a great deal to women (more so then most men). Always
start off with the kissing (if the situation permits it
and most do).
Kissing does not just include her mouth! You can kiss anything
and everything. You can suck anything or everything. Most
the women I have fooled around with seemed to have a big weakness
to their neck and shoulders. Perhaps you should check with
your women to make sure you are doing what she truly desires.
Again though, it isn't something you want to be talking
about in the heat of the moment. Always pick a time that you
can actually discuss your sexual relationship/activities.
Doing it in the heat of the moment may be offensive cause
they may find it as a direct insult.
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