How to pick up a woman
FOR GUYS, GETTING LAID IS A CHORE.
FOR WOMEN, GETTING LAID IS A CHOICE.
Never forget this difference in the balance of power between
the sexes. The tricks and tactics you'll learn in this
book will make you one of those rare guys who is on the choice
side of that power equation.
While we are here I better make something else clear. I do
NOT believe that sex is the be all and end all of relating
to women. Nor do I believe that it is always necessary or
even DESIRABLE to use the tactics outlined in this book,
(whether fair or unfair) to get a woman to sleep with you.
It is certainly possible that the particular woman you
fancy may be smart enough and have enough good sense to want
you just as you are, without any games or bullshit on her
part. She may also be sane and psychologically healthy
enough to express that desire naturally, without any hang-ups
or guilt games. You might even find - gasp - that the friendship
and intimacy you share with a lady are more important to
you than sex. When you find a lady like this, cherish her
as the rare treasure she is. Hang on tight, and don't
let go!
Unfortunately, based on my own experience, and the experience
of hundreds of men I've interviewed, most women do
not fit into this category. I wish they did - the REALITY
is that they do NOT! The reality is that you, as a man, are
going to be sexually attracted to many, many women, very
few of whom are going to naturally desire you, and who you
can also respect, love and admire.
Many of these women are going to be hung-up sexually, depressed,
suffer from low self-esteem, eating disorders, alcoholism,
etc. Heck, I even briefly dated a woman who turned out to
be bulimic, alcoholic, and was also secretly a hooker!
Top that for a dating disaster story!
Now, you may decide, the heck with it. If you can't at
least like and respect a lady, and if you have to resort to
tactics you learned in a book, then it just isn't worth
it, and you will skip dealing with such loser females altogether.
I certainly can respect that choice; it's the choice
I eventually made myself. But only YOU can make that choice.
Even if you do, this book will still be of great value to you,
because you will learn fantastic techniques for improving
your confidence, meeting and picking up women anywhere,
any time, and how to quickly recognize and swiftly eliminate
all the nutty-losers BEFORE they get to empty your wallet,
bend your brain, and kick your heart in. You'll be able
to get rid of the dirt, so you can enjoy the diamonds
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