RE: Are older men Scared,,an older version
Being 57, yo single, divorced man. I can identify with
the
young womens point of View. Concerning older men's
"fear"
of dating, and fucking younger women. Obviously even
though
I do belong to the older man fraternity. I can only speak
for my self. Some younger women mis-read an older guys
reluctance as fear. However it is more of a respect of
a young womans youth, not fear. On the other hand. Some young
women are turned off to "be like fucking my dad"
and are offended by it. And have no problem expressing this
in kind or unkind terms. Re-enforcing an older mans respect
for a young womans youth and the prices for not doing so.
For the the other writer, ,they experessed some of the
other factors of the emotional baggage older responsible
men endure after a divorce. Here it could be called fear
of
any woman, not just being afraid of a younger women.
Most older men are just that, been a round the block a
few times, wore many differn't hat's along the
way, still have the quanity, and quality only time can
bring. Sure
there are gross, Drooling, lecher's that give the
rest of
the franternity a bad name.However most of us are very selective, and
can tell from experince and practice.As to Which young
women have a sincere interest, and worth the
time. And the other's for what ever reason who are Not.
Thats not being afraid to Date a younger women, establsish
a friendship, ,or be lovers. It's just a form of mature
respect and selection that comes with time.
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