RE: anal
You never have to do anything you're uncomfortable
with. That's part of the give-and-take in a relationship.
If you don't want to, he can't make you. It's
your body and your decision.
That said, read up on how it's done before you decide
never to do it. Many women find it quite pleasurable, if
it's done correctly. There are "how-to's"
in just about every adult book store. I'm not going
to lie to you: It hurts every time.
It's not like you do it once and the next time it doesn't.
There will always be some pain. The idea is to learn the techniques
that are not painful and practice those. My last girl and
I frequently used this form of sex to heighten our sex lives,
but it took several tries before we got it right.
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